Sunday, January 12, 2020

Skills of Christmas gnomes 2. Hero like skills


Tale like fascination in everyday life, Skills of gnomes 2., Gnome like life in the modern world



I wrote a long text with lots of advices in skills about the possibilities of and skills needed for "Gnome like life in the modern world" http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2018/09/gnomes-or-more-likelily-doing-things-in.html . It is some 20 pages long. This text here is just some additional remarks loosely on the subject.


B1.   I again took a look at the book Tontun vuosi (=Gnome's year). This time I looked more at the pictures, since I noticed that they connected gnome like traditional life in Finland to far away places with such features in their culture and daily life, so that it kind of allied anmd searched for possibilities of such life in the world. But on the other hand the pictures still looked fatally ill.

B2.   Quite in the beginning there was something about a gnome that owned some place and dictated how one was to behave there. It sounded like a subject that does not work out iun these modern times, or works in a quite different way. Usually what dictates how to behave is culture, some profession's ways and skills needed for such thing to work out. So one failös if one does not follow such. But a gnome like person is one who likes such culture and such professions, is kind of in their shelter and enjoys her or his time there and so does also some job but is not the biggest upkeeper of the thing and not it's original founder.

B3.   Very much the book now left a taste that it does not create possibilities for those things but just advertices things past or things possible only for some. But can it be that things like tales and religions demand in order for them to work at all or almost at all that you do not believe in them but instead read kind of doubtful and trying to stay objectuive and then find in your good quality picture of the world thing in that direction that are really magnifient and work out super fine, you kind of had the religion as a guide to find such things but youy did not find the solutions via bla-bla-bla reading it though  but isntead via following well your civiliced wisdom, obhective thinking, wisdom of life, such highlights of your experience of life etc.

B4.   I was sometimes after my long gnome text left wondering if some famous songs or some of my melodies would also fit the gnome subject. But the problem is that they are usually connected with the weather and nature and so vary from culture to culture: one should just get to know the wisdom of the traditionla culture of the nation, it's weather wisdom and songs. Anyway, here are some which bring some fracturelessness:
Rakovalkealla
Puolalainen nuotiolaulu
 This mnelody of mine I wonder if it could help tro mourn an atom bomb, since the tress are wise and healthy.


B5. But anyway, my view is strongest where one does not mix tales to it, and that is just about all of my other texts. And there are very many of them, over 80 blogs. Please follow the links in my gnome text!


B6.   15th of January 2020   About gnome kind of magic like the atmosphere of a certain place
If one has wisdom of life, one can when passing by or meeting, offer some tracks via which the life of the other(s) goes pleasantly. Like, if one liked the weather outdoos, found it pleasant and spent some time there, one can when coming in offer a view to how the weather was pleasant and what was enjoyable to do in such a weather. Sometimes also when one has experience of life of some wisdom of life carrying, one can offer an example of such to others in a similar situation, like for example dream job and hobbies.

B7.   "15th January 2020
In cleaning one's home or other ordinary environment, I think it is important to not to just remove some things and leave the place unkept and nasty feeling, but instead tidy at the same time, like cleaning the floor from scrap, dust and dirt and then placing the carpet like is nice for living. And for work habits it is important to have a good mood and energy, enjoyable motion, so tat for cleaning the floor for some it is nice to be agile and clean on one's knees, changing agilely place, while for others it is nice to fing a well working equipment with with you can clean the floor standing and walking around, with calm quite pleasant motions and a good mood. "
 https://picturesfrommyhome.blogspot.com/

B8.   Raining snow, streetlights here and there

B9.   A modern gnome could learn to solve environmental questions. Paying attention to approach, a question is easier to talk about than the same when termed a prblem. If some things feel or sound likeideals, maybe they sound so because they tend to have many good sides, which now could be used to find solution attempts to enviornmentalk questions.Convincing associations from them to the objective picture of the world and to practicak kife coukd give at least partial answers that others too agree abouty.
In Finnish http://kokonaiskuvat.blogspot.com

B10.   17th January 2020   I was watching some news video from abroad. The khhrraahhh-like sound made me think that something is a mess if one does not see how it consists of healthy natural wholes, like plants, parts of what the weather feels like, the atmospheres of different places, body's heaölthy finctioning etc. If one pays attention to such wholes, then the experience of much more pleasant and harmonucal.

B11.   18th of January 2020   In singing, drawing, painting, poems etc one's experience of daily life is rich of different tones, different atmospheres, shades of colours, variations of forms, especially the nature, if one does not put them to theory form but lives one's life and just enjoys the senses and has wisdom of life, and practices sports too, just out of the joy of moving and of the good mood and energy one so gets, not as an achievement of social points or act of some kind. Such is good for quality of work, wisdom of life, skills at large and enjoyment of life. But one should not try to remember those things in a theory form and kind of life through it since such isn't good for happiness or new skills. Natural rythms are important for happiness, likewise natural healthy elements of life in thier right ages old places in life and in the world, meaningfully, contently, happily, in a well working way that gives freedom for healthy civiliced kind of life.

B12.   Christmas gnomes kind of sleepy, warm, somewhat soft appearance is a result of school or work being a burden in November and December, and so handiworks, cooking, making home nice, warm clothes and Christmas preparations offer somewhat like music a relief and rest from the burdens, a form of comfortable free time. Hobbiues are for many such around the year if they are something like handiworks or cooking. Tradition offers shelter, ways via which achieve higher. A soft appearance isn't the smae as a gnome. More like liking something, some place, activity, company, is gnomelike if it is good willing enough to fit a civiliced society, like for example all human raletionships ought to be lived in civiliced ways and if that does not sound nice, then taken much more distance to such persons so that one behaves in civiliced ways toward them too. Civiliced behaviour allows defence and allows freedom, to others too.

B13.   22th of January 2020
This piece is from last December, somewhat gnome like, I think.

B14.   23.1.2020   Another attempt at solving environmental questions. It together with a landscape like view that observes structures can teach good thinking skills for animals.


B15.   25th January 2020   There is often misunderstandings and evil connected with whether ine says "gnome like" or "gnome like role, since the first has gnomes as a hobby that she/he likes, and the other one means that one considers others too much gnome like and feels that one is forced to act much more gnome like than what one is while one in fact opposes gnome like things. Sometimes thouigh kids and young persons say "gnome role" when they mean learning by copying something about gnomes that they like and admire.

B16.   26th of January 2020
"Shelter like here in my home in Savonlinna, Finland, is a question of choosing the biggest factors of one's life so that they kind of shelter the kind of life I want to live, like for example what kind of job and choosing things benefical for it, and choosing other major activities in one's life so that they fit one's character, and choosing where one lives and what one buys and what one associates with so that they shelter these: are planned to give these good possibilities, like good quality equipment chosen with time and used with dedication. And then trying to find in one's life wise solutions, and living in peace with the rest of the world, even if not always with all the people one associates with. Food, religion, culture's ways and values, music, work, supported habits (hobbies) give shelter too."
https://picturesfrommyhome.blogspot.com/

B17.   28th of January 2020   If there is something big wrong in the world, one often gains a quite serene place if one does not spend much time pondering about it and worrying but instead tries on one's own behalf to not to worsen the situation at all, whatever it is, and that means following civilized wisdom, living an ordinary life and doing positive things.


B18.   It often happens to people that some side of their life seems to need tough realism. One can then at the excuse of value-free optimizing use a way of thinking which describes structures, like engineering and the sciences do, and is so surely objective. One can then use a common sense like seen view of the landscape one is in and of one's life and of the world, with the sense of atmospheres and daily life's understanding too, and that is a view that describes structures and often does it well, and so it can widen a lot the view which describes structures in one's thinking, and at the same time bring ordinary common sense and ordinary daily life again to be the major current life runs along, often peacefully, but this time with good objective grounds and tough realism as a part of the message of common sense backing up the ordinary peaceful life.

B19.  
https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/12/in-midst-of-emotionally-felt-beauty.html

B20.   " Instead of tidying small detail one should have attention in the spirit that one aims at having in the room, if how the room would be nice. Drown in that spirit, do things that fit well together with that, see that view richer and as more dominant. Then place few things, or even more if it goes well, according to that spirit, for example some area of the room, or bring clothes of the beginning season's weathers, things needed in it or the like, for one to have some spirit, some element which creates pleasant being and well working spaces. Where it does not work out so well, leave things undone this time, at most taike away some thing with nasty spirit, and leave rest later, to be done according to other factors which create pleasant life to those things which are not well taken care of by for example the window with it's view, plants on the window, curains, things there, light, shadow by it or the like."
http://picturesfrommyhome.blogspot.com/2018/02/arranging-home-nicely.html

B21.   People meet many different kinds of situations, subjects and approaches in their daily life. They are not always sure, which is the correct approach to each, and so they take different mentioned factors and social things into account. So if you follow some chain of thought in some discussion thoroughly and aloud, they are likely to remember that that was one of the subjects today and so they are likely to be in that context in that matter with you in the near future too. But if the thing was nasty or crime or something to be avoided, you could have left the chain of your thoughts unsaid and preferably unthought and unmentioned, and chosen something positive instead, so that to choose that option in your social life. People do not live through a school perspective, even though many use such too, but instead they kind of float from some social matter to another, so that if you choose an easy alternative like going to meal or repeating something agreed about and supported, you are likely to achieve a better result, especially if you also have some subject of yours, like a painting hobby for example.

B22.   29th of January 2020
"
World is of love (a mechanical model) http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html
Paradise theory: theory of the healthy world: http://hubpages.com/hub/Future-Paradise
Video introducing paradise theory www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppcGZEJxwHA
My book "2013: Paradise like era" http://2013paradise.blogspot.fi
A shorter version: women's values calculated for men http://www.angelfire.com/planet/paradisewins/TPBCASAW.pdf
Curing future threath scenarios http://paratiisiteoria.blogspot.fi/2013/09/paratiisissa-on-kaarme.html
 "
https://paratiisiteoria.blogspot.com/2016/01/paratiisi-voittaa.html

B23.   4th of February 2020
"
If you like the weathers and nature in your own country, maybe you would like to learn to compose music by yourself. Please read in the same text, on the above link ( https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html ), in the beginning of the May part a text about singing spring. It teaches how to transfor a fascinating atmosphere into a melody."
https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com

B24.   About giving birth this advice might work well and be quick and painless. At least it always comes to my mind as if people had lots of positive experience from it. For example it came to my mind to translate it among the first of my curing guesses. http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2017/07/about-giving-birth-knee-ball-misplaced.html

B25.   11th February 2020   "And so think my dogs too that the young worms etc choose theoir own colour  and if somewhere humans value certain coloured insects, such insects come to see them, like earlier when near our home there was a meadow and quite near lived a young girl in the first classes of school, so in the garden came near to me a green fascinating looking insect somewhat like a dragon ins tyle. I do not know, but when I was thinking of the weathers, do they feel different for different people, are they different, can the nature so be different too, that an individual can by choosing a different road in life, different approach and values find a different relationship to the nature and a view to places near to one's home? When I last autumn read the Beginning of the Finnish national ephos (collection of old poems transmitted from mouth to mouth, mythical stories) Kalevala, it created a completely different view to the trees outside my window, much more fasconationg, and so I choose those places to look from to be my usual ones, for me too keep some of that fascination in my daily life."

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https://talesfromforest.blogspot.com/2017/08/how-we-choose-our-own-roads-in-life.html

B26.   From my knitting tips
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22. About errors, repairing and learning
  In avoiding errors it is important to notice that some things demand much more time and need their own peaceful space. Planning is such. Likewise estimating right places and right ways of doing. Spotrs talented people invest in moving maybe a thousand tomes more each moment than ones withotu such taloents, and so they do better in sports. If you want to get over some problematic point, keep a pause, breathe freash air, eat something, maybe a fruit or so, rest and do other things for change. Form a picture of your goals starting from your dremas, not according to a ridi´´gid form. Collect practical skills to your support and some kind of emotional touch and an eye for teaching that yu can apply to yourself. Return to those points which succeeded and find good ways of doing and the minimum amount of energy you need. Try again along your dreams with a good quality in practise. Don't copy your old failures and the viewpoints of too clumsy ways. Think starting from the ideals what would be a good way to solve proiblems.
  If some point, for examle a loop, is difficult, don't copy technically but instead pay attention to what virtues the skilled ones base theirt success in, for example agile, with sharp eyes, with a sense of atmospheres, calm, doing things in good ways, and cultivate those for example first in some other action where one can learn them and rememeber again, and keep the practises short, fpor example 1-5 min and with pauses in between or some entirely different kinds of things to do."

B27.   The diffeerence between people with high skills and low skills is in the long run in whether you always aim at higher quality or say that this quality is good enough for me, I do not care to try more. Since peole learn new skills as they age.

B28.   13th of February 2020
What people have as hobbies or are interested in affects which things get invested in. So even if it seems quite impossible,it is possible in towns add a tree here and there and maybe a park. In the 1800's or I do not remember when in the capital of Finland Helsinki there was a plague that killed was it 2/3 of the population. So they took away maybe a third of the houses and planted parks and trees roadside in the center of the town too, since such together with decorations of the houses is enough to remove plague. So if nature is needed, maybe there is a place for it also in the modern world.
About such grounds http://workandfreetime.blogspot.com

B29.   14th February 2020
One often gets company and support from those who share your present ideals and goals in life, things interesting and values & hobbies. And not from those whom you are used to but long for different roads, long for new options that they do not agree about.
People often get well along with people who share at least a few similar interests and have roughly the same skill level but have some different strenghts, so that you are not in trouble at the same time but can instead offer support.

B30.   "An attemopt at a kind of love song



   ... Was thinking of fixing love songs so that one would get along well, kind of happy life for oneself and liking the other and then again making sure that one has happy life so that one does not get tired and into argunments but instead has energy,g ood will and a good mood."https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com/

B31.   15th of February 2020 About finding adate   https://advicesforthelonely.blogspot.com/

B32.   16th of February 2020

http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html

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B33.   
Wishing well for the world is benefical
Listen to your sensations, compare how well do not feel and especially what you estimate how your health would develop in the near future, would you fall ill and/or get into accidents or feel well, if you either wished well for the world, kind of very beautifully with healthy spirit, and tried to follow that line in your life, even if that does not affect much, or did not care about the world and did not wish well for the world at large. Wishing well for the world makers one wished for the in the world, as if people would wish you to stay healthy, kind of feeling well because people like your course in the world, energetic and wihtout serious obstructions."
https://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/

B34.   "

29 points of view which support the paradise of healthy world

"29 POINTS OF VIEW WHICH SUPPORT THE GLOBAL PARADISE OF THE COMPLKETELY HEALTHY WORLD AS THE BEST OPTION FROM EACH OF THEM

K. Gibran (a famous writer from Lebanon): " I have chosen both the joys of this world and peace in the world to come. Because I feel in my heart that the Upmost Poet wrote just one poem and its structure is perfect."

The concept of health is good for fitting together all the different viewpoints:
1) POWER (health gives strenght),
2) BENEFIT (health gives a strong and well arranged working force and consequently a high standard of living from which to benefit, healthy goals give a strong motivation),
3) FREEDOM (live and let others live is a rule to follow in order to achieve a maximum amount of freedom for everyone and a healthy society in this sense),
4) CONTROL (the health of practises makes people agree with the practises and creates no opposing forces),
5) life according to FEELINGS (healthily according to feelings is a part of the full health),
6) MORAL (moral means guarding the good health of the whole world, evil means needless breaking),
7) SCIENCE (a healthy animal is the fittest),
8) most RELIGIONs (a healthy world / a paradise and good moral are things to aim at),
9) COMPUTER logic (healthy = fully functioning = times 1, broken = non-funtioning = times 0),
10) COMMON SENSE (health is a common sense concept which all know well),
11) the UNBRINGING OF CHILDREN (those who bring up children are typically for healthy ways of living and good moral),
12) the views of the TRADITIONAL Finnish culture and propably of most other CULTURES too (it is good to cultivate good health and stupid to break needlessly),
13) a view capable of HANDLING LARGE INTERCONNECTED SYSTEMS (health is a good concept which can be generalised to all kinds of systems),
14) a SEXuality oriented view (what could be more attractive than health and happiness),
15) the points of view of aiming at MANliness or WOMANliness (healthy natural life according to emotions is what the charm and capacity of each sex is based on),
16) the view that NO MATERIAL WORLD exists (the wholes stay unchanged and the truth about healthy versus broken functioning stays valid),
17) the wish to PROTECT NATURE (health of the world means among other things the protection of nature),
18) the wish to DEVELOP TECHNOLOGY (a healthy life in a nature environment should bring the best ground for theoretical intelligence - see my pages www.paradisewins.net/increasingintelligence.html and www.paradisewins.net/interconnectedness.html) and
19) the need to SECURE THE FUTURE.
20) a picture of humans according to which there is NO need for anyone to do experiments on humans like those during the HOLOCAUST
21) the hopes of exhausted WORKERS NEEDING REST and variation to their lives
22) the dream of just about all SCHOOL CHILDREN of more life and less dry school like things (see my book Work Efficiency and Likings for the rationality of feelings and the role of atmospheres in thinking) (This is my weakest point.)
23) the goal of solving the FIGHT BETWEEN GOOD AND EVIL in a positive way via the concept of health - which should give you what you want or even more...
24) the SOVINIST point of view of wanting everything to be well grounded on hard values too (see my two books!)
25) the FEMINIST point of view of wanting respect for women's values: for feelings and moral (see my two books for the fitting together of these last two!)
26) hard WAR like rationality i.e. pure power play like if evil got to rule the world and there would be a fight over who is the strongest (health gives strength)
27) a view completely according to feelings and even the sense of BEAUTY
28) It is a view that could PREVENT people being CONTROLled BY the force of TECHNOLOGY etc. in a way that is in contradiction with the freedom of individuals or moral. (Health of the whole i.e. high moral is the most beneficial way to arrange things.)
29) ONE'S OWN GOOD, so that the harder one reaches for any goal or the harder one is pushed toward any direction, the more moral and positive for happiness one becomes (Health and allying with the health of the world = excellent moral, gives the strongest allegiancy.)

All these 28 viewpoints support the global paradise of a healthy world as the very best option when wacthed from that point of view.

Why happens this to be so? Is it just an unlikely coincidence? No: it is a truth which we can well trust since the EVOLUTION has shaped us so that our health and health of the society are what our nature, our feelings, instincts (= directions) and understanding (= a map, directed only because we have the goal of answering our needs which the feelings and instincts too help to answer) together, guide us toward and what gives us, the society and the world at large its best possible functioning."

B35.   18th of February 2020
"66. Sparklingly fascinating human relationships
If one is one's true self in one's human relationships, in one's everyday life encounters, the others too have their characteristics. So if one goies along with them somewhat, the amount like most fascuinates in each type of characteristic, always only for a few minutes or like feels best for onself and is natural. Then one can from one's human cantact each one learn something about life, even if one were different from the other one and even if the others were not so wise and fascinating ordinarily.
So one learns about life, lives a fascinating everuday life, and from each person one can choose which characteristics are like what I am interested in and which get löeft further away. In this way one sometimes gets sparklingly fascinating human relationships, but that means that one should not be rigid, formal or lie to oneself.

67. With things it is the same: if you can yourself choose the distance and how much you associate with them, things are much more fascinating."
https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html

B 36.   "72. About sorrow and strong feelings
Ic one conceives one's perceptions theoretically and like the build environment, one's life is left somehow flat and it's rythms artificial, and so it's flow does not have the strenght to carry strong feelings, and so strong feelings throw one out of balance uncontrolledly.
But if one instead lives a practical life senses open and the body sportily muscles carrying strongly, then the basic flow of one's life is strong and it's rythms vary a lot according to each situation. And so then a strong feeling is like life's mood, like life's weather, and does not bring uncontrolled out of balance reactions. Then strong feelings do not feel cumbersome but feel like natural ways to experience life's biggest questions and to live strongly."
https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html

B37.   "

Old times work happiness in nowadays world

From http://learntalents.blogspot.fi

"Old times happiness in the present day world
From my blog http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.fi

 "It ca,me to my mind from the sentence "The sailor was fully sailing, meaning fully drunk." that here the drunkenness and sailing, I guess on a wooden ship waved by the waves, got mixed. In these modern times people tend to think that on the sea many drank lots of alcohol, but aren't he impression at the same time that sun is shining warmly, ship moves nicely under the feet, it is a quiet atmosphere, peaceful, moments full of happiness. Can it be that in the odl times, when the sailor on his on as a kid got to know the sea or lake, he was there associating with boats and waves having moment with a good spirit: the sea as an elelment according to the human nature, as a phenomenom that is huge and has a spirit of itäs own kind, the flow of life according to it, the way of life at the sea which maybe opens when one without education, via such expereincies that touch the s´instinct nature and teach skill gets to know the profession, guided by, maybe dustant, forefigures that are fascinated by it. Edication on the other hand brings an approach that has a different spirit, breaks the atmosphere and so one loses the spirit of things and does not feel as nice. But could my thinking course (http://quickerlearning.blogspot.fi) replace educated thinking by common sense that is at least as objective but easier to carry along, and in addition for example beneficiality based moral: do useful things, build better living conditions to the society and the world + "Live and let others livce" i.e. it is ok to be selfish in ways poosityive for happy life but not to mess with the lives of others, except fairly is ok (see http://Finnishskills.blogspot.fi) and so keep both the good sides of education and good spirit in things, in things done. About learning skills on one's own, see (http://learntalents.blogspot.fi/2017/09/learn-talents-and-skills-in-something.html) ""
http://workandfreetime.blogspot.com

B38.   "

About kalevala

"I bought Kalevala as a book to myself and read some of the beginning. In the competition singing of Väinämöinen and Joukahainen I was surprised to notice that Joukahainen did not lack skills so much, but instead Väinämöinen sang him to be things like the glow of the nature, to the marks of great skill in the nature.
   "Hat from the head of the man he sang
   to be an erect front edge of a cloud;
   he sang mittens from his hands
   to be leaves on the cover of pond's water,
   from that misty blue
   to be clouds in the sky,
   from his belt a fascination of a new wife
   to be stars scattered in the sky."
So I was left to ponder, if I as a girl thought when reading kalevala that that is what can happen with great skill: one loses position, propably via losing communication connection when one no longer speaks the language of men with more soldier like style. That I would take care to not to fall myself into that pitfall. But at the same time I thought that I could nearly reach that high, to that style in achievements. Now I think that it is like having met a bird: with it's song it makes forests beautifult o wander in, green, there is much soldier like wisdom in it's voice. 
 But so, how did I think I could reach so high skill and quality of life, like the reddish glow of the grassas in a forest etc. One would have a healthy way fo living or a healthy touch of one's own which would cure the way of life healthy again, to ages old. In every thing one would see the parts of healthy way of life which are as an idea in it, and so the deed when sees alike as others' deeds would be healthy on one's own and on others too, and so one could continue with healthy psirit from that, each one, whole society, and partly the rest of the world lear from it. ( World is of love (a mechanical model) http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html ) ( http://finnishskills.blogspot.fi/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html )
One would have skills of one's own, one would have found one's own roads in life, it would be good to be an individual, personality, like oneself and strong, enjoying being an individual. And so human relationships would be in a way clishee like and in a way with a healthy spirit: one would have the strenght to have an opinion, do meaningful things, carried by the values of the society, things with healthy psirit carried by the actions and values of the society which have healthy spirit which would have strenght and content to life.
And one could get strenght, skills and integrite with opinions from being soldier like: to defend something, to invest in healthy courses, copying fro little singin birds and fromother strong wild animal persons (http://wildharmony.blogspot.fi/ ). One would be healthily spoirty, doing things at the practical level, with a good understanding achieved via adfmiring the nature and feeling via beautiful values, caring for the world, approaching life with feelings, motivated to the sphere of life and missions of the traditional way of life, with feelings and with a good understanding, reaching parts of the forefigures in nature of their skill level every now and then. (In Finnish http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.fi/2016/07/suurista-tunteista.html )

My old video: if you can imagine a skill livelily, you can learn it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAFN4gs35_A

https://talesfromforest.blogspot.com/


B39.   "

World Is Of Love (a mechanical model)

World Is Of Love

All action is based on what works i.e. on what is healthy.
The healthy is what our nature guides us towards,
what we naturally feel love for.
So the world, all it’s dynamics,
is based on the healthy, which we love.
On a flowery language: “The World Is Of Love!”

A thought by Hannele Tervola

Say that all man-made things which are
1) fully functioning,
2) optimized for many purposes at the same time and
3)used rationally wisely in the light of one's whole picture of the world,
are "healthy".
Notice that we like strenght, protection, speed etc., so we mildly love the healthy artificial things too, and the ideally good we would love.
This way the above thought applies also in the modern world full of man-made artificialities.

This is also a social skill: to see the place of each thing in the healthy natural original ages old way of living. That is a little bit the same as the social role of a stupid person: "Here am I doing this thing that I am motivated toward naturally, like you too can see in yourself the natural inclination for this type of things." and so the other one is slightly amused and does something along the same lines but one's own version, kind of catches the tune of doing. And so for some minutes things run smoothly and everybody is happy. This is connected to learning about healthy natural ways of living on all areas of life: enjoyable motion, watching beauty, enjoying friendly conversations, doing nice things according to one's likings, caring for the major matters of the world, reacting emotionally to different things in life and in the world, etc.
Reading poems can teach one to see the beauty and harmony in life, kind of like this thought here."
http://healthilymoral.blogspot.com/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html

B40.   ""
Ages old love that lasts forever - about one's understanding of the world

I borrowed from the library poems of Aleksis Kivi (of whom we heard a lot in school and who is very much like teachers) and among those was the song Onnelliset (The happy ones),in the end of whoích were the phraces:
"and the humming of the valley sings
like the voice of an ages old love that lasts forever"
which brings to my mind the impression birdsong in the nature sometimes brings of harmony full of happiness that they sing about. That is the voice of humans and animals, of the living nature, of the agers old right way to live, it's way to touch feelings and it's happiness, of the way of living that varies from one human and one animal to another, but which has the same factors and same themes, ways it varies and wanders, but in different sizes, maybe in different subjects, happenings in life that touch feelings and learning wisdom of life from others, living at the same time in a landscape, having found one's own place in the big whole of the living kind, in harmony with other animals etc.

But in fact the last verses are:
"Here I stand with my lady
and the curly hair waves in the wind
and the humming of the valley sings
like the voice of an ages old love that lasts forever
     since the night has gone
   and glimmers the summery morning
     and the birds just sing."
in which one hasn't in fact told at all, how that harmony which touches the human nature is reached, but only mentioned the lack of skills of school pupils, arguments etc, that night and as a cure only the morning, or is it learning civilized wisdom, but the problem is that the same problem comes the next night again. And at the same time the birds sing wiser.

But about explaing the voice of the ages old love that lasts forever, I mean what and how, one would propably learn from my paradise theory book, I guess that from it's paradise part especially, but propably the parts before that would also be needed as groundwork: http://www.angelfire.com/planet/paradisewins/2013paradise.rtf

""
From my Finnish blog about solving environmental questions https://kokonaiskuvat.blogspot.com



B41.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bncqKtmg4Kw



B42.   "
"I wander the paths of the forest

I wander the paths of the forest
on a summer evening thinking deeply by myself
and my chest enlargens of joy
and I sing, just sing.

There in the lush woods under a hill
it was strange a moment ago
so slight, wonderful
under the green leaves of trees.

I, a man, only know it,
only me and somebody else
and the lush wood's loving bird
and a tree in flower spreading it's scent."

Eino Leino (My translation)"
http://einoleinopoems.blogspot.com



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B43.  









B44.   19th of February 2020
"Enlightenment consist of several things
Years ago I read books on Zen Buddhism andlearned quite much about Buddhism from them. But they said that enlightenment would be a single moment via which reach a deeper understanding, but what  have learned is that enlightenment demands several things: valuing th experienced reality, following feelings like choosing free time things freely and a job that one likes a lot, sports and healthy ways of living, civilized wisdom and civilized ways of good will that is healthy in spirit but positive for happy life and for individual freedom in harmony with the rest of the society and of the world."
https://orientalphilosphy.blogspot.com

B45.
"Do you want to improve the world?
I don't think it can be done.

The world is sacred.
It can't be improved.
If you tamper with it, you will ruin it.
If you treat it like an object, you will lose it.

There is a time for being ahead,
 a time for being behind;
a time for being in motion,
a time for being at rest;
a time for being vigorous,
a time for being  exhausted;
a time for being safe,
a time for being  in danger.

The Master sees things as they are,
without trying to control them.
She lets them go their own way,
and resides at the center of the circle."
From the Chinese classic Tao-Te-Ching, chapter 29 in the excellent trasnlation to English by Stephen Mitchell
If you read the book, do it without giving up your common sense and objectivity at all!



B46.
"There makes it's nest,
makes it's golden eggs:
six golden eggs,
the seventh one an iron egg.   (Six loved, eggs of happiness, the seventh of rationality to make them all of good quality and so strong and enduring.)"
https://kalevalainenglish.blogspot.com/



 
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This gnome text seems to be ready. 
Among the last quotations were my best texts, so there isn't much more that I could write in the subject. I do not feel like knowing much about the subject, since it is just a tale.



Skills of Christmas gnomes 3. Tale like fascination in everyday real life
   https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2020/02/some-additional-remarks-about-gnome.html
Skills of Christmas gnomes 4. Oath like love
   http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2020/07/tale-like-things-in-everyday-life.html
Skills of Christmas gnomes 5. Gnomes from the religious point of view
   http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2020/09/skills-of-christmas-gnomes-5-gnomes.html

Tuesday, December 17, 2019

Fracturelessness

 It came to my mind from listening to an old times' Finnish recording of a Christmas song and it wa somehow fractureless. Could one reach something like that in a Christams song also abroad, if one thought of one's hobbies and likened it to people near by having hobbies that they like, but usually different hobbies for different persons, and thinking under Christmas living in a landscape with the Christmas shopping, waiting for Christams, the hoped for fuss of that time. The Finnish rule "Live and let others live" widens this kind of harmony to everyday life at other times of the year. If one hopes for more profound ways, healthy natural ages olf ways of living on all areas of life bring such.
The emotional beauty of Christmas songs goes right if one chooces a song because one likes that song and instead of a performance one sings it oneself because one likes the song, and does that on a moment with peace for that kind of thing to do.

http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html


Sunday, April 7, 2019

Trusting emotions

How to trust the wisdom of emotions: Use at the same

time a landscape like seen view plus the sense of

atmospheres in it and understand the phenomena via

them. So your emotional views born of the things in the

landscape have objective thinking backing them up.

Guess always that healthy natural ages old ways of

living are the best choise and invest in them in all

areas of life, and so your solution are likely to work

in practice.

Sunday, March 10, 2019

Singing spring


"Singing spring
Now that trees and bushes are getting their leaves, instead of Eurovision song contest, I feel that the nature would somehow long for humans too to sing, maybe like this, a little bit like on the summer cottage or an freely organized choir or singing at home, like feels to suit the moment.
(A quotation from my blog http://musiikkipaivakirja.blogspot.fi 29.4.2017 :)
"A singing skill from a few years ago came to my mind today morning, when grass was most places already green, sun was shining, birds sang and the green plants on my window created a feel of green, there was like the summer time a haze like atmosphere in the air. So with that atmosphere came to my mind a tune that I roughly knew, or something in the direction, so I sang it in a way that emphasized the fascination of the atmosphere, like doves or yodling(?) of the Alps or composing, creating sound like the atmosphere, not according to rigid forms but singing especially the parts that are musical, emphasizing the atmoshphere tones, like assembling from pieces of different strenght, somehow a very natural song and atmospheric, a little bit like what a composer seeks for with his/her tune: a moment with such an atmosphere but richer one, and then singing it naturally, not la-la-laa or the like as if from notes but instead from the places that the atmosphere touches oneself, one is fascinated by such an experience, but somehow on a general level and not a murmur of personal life.""

A quotation from my long text about living wisely the four seasons http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html

15.3.2020   An easy method of writing down the melodies, but I am not sure if it is right: https://composingmelodies.blogspot.com/2019/11/about-plotting-down-melodies.html

 

Thursday, March 7, 2019

Cure attempts to illnesses

S
ee http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2018/12/index-with-cure-suggestions-after-word.html

Cure attempts made by comparing with fully healthy ways of living, a translation of some 50 texts from my Finnish blog about curing http://parantamisesta.blogspot.fi

Here an index of some 500 headers, with cure suggestions in them after the word "and":
http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2018/12/index-with-cure-suggestions-after-word.html

Address of the whole blog http://curingguesses.blogspot.com

No medicine, no treatments, works out in 5 min after patient reading or no effect

7th of July 2019   Advices for if you do not feel fully well in the summer time   http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2017/08/if-you-dont-feel-well-in-summer-time.html

Getting thinner quick (5 min), easily and comfortably

"Getting thinner quick and easily, comfortably

If your emotional ideal weight is thinner than your present weight. And if the season is such that one uses quite lot of food. But you don't need even all present fat to bear the weather. Then you copuld get somewhat thinner quick, for example in five minutes and then would your diet already be over for the time being. And in so doing you would feel somewhat like one who has eaten oily food or bakery.

So: You can pay attention to your emotional iudeal weight, which needs to be honestly estimated, you real goal. And so you can then take such weight as your identity, that means somewhat smaller body and a body form & size according to your character. The fat that is over this, especially ones feeling cumbersome or not so good, you can let to melt away, and to come near the stomach as an effect like buttery food, which replace some of the fat of some near future meal but not it's nutritients.
So you still need healthy meals.

 I do notr know how well one gets thinner with this but it appears that at least somewhat if the smaller body size is left as one's identity, a more satisfied picture of oneself. Somehow I would suppose that in teh human nature there is some natural weight control mechanism like this."



translated from my Finnish blog about getting thinner in comfortable or nice ways
http://laihdutuskikkoja.blogspot.fi

About living wisely the weathers   http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html


1. emotional ideal weight, 2. extra fat, 3. melt away, and 4. (two last notes) come as bakery like feeling to near the stomach



The address of this blog post is:
http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2019/03/getting-thinner-quick-5-min-easily-and.html


26th March 2019

Both of these advices ought to be used max 1-5 min at a time, in order to not to go to artificialities and unwise ways, destroying good mood wisdom of life, healthy spirit, widom and skills.

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Rationality of feelings

Please see my old video playlist about The rationality of feelings and instincts at http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5413BA37709C0F53


A rose in his teeth

From my Finnish blog http://yksinaisille.blogspot.fi
"I was pondering this since in the summer time I once picked tall grasses and tied them with a woolen thread to a bunch that looked quite fine in my opinion, and since my poodle brings me in the evenings a sock that he "says" to be his drink.


So can it be that the clishee of a Romeo with a rose in his teeth, for example climbing in from a window, could refer to what if I do fine fascinating things in my life, have them as my hobbies like my poodle has fascinating things like summer cottage life and arts, so could this clishee refer to someone's life consisting of nice things with good spirit that draw people to them like a rose draws people. So one should have a good life oneself and it would attract someone likeminded who would be very satisfied next to tyou, since she did not come because of theoáter act like things but instead drawn by the same real thing that fascinate you.
http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/12/in-midst-of-emotionally-felt-beauty.html
http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/12/old-times-happiness-in-present-day-world.html
http://talesfromforest.blogspot.com/
"

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19th May 2019    I translated some other texts of the same blog, but those are not as good translations: http://advicesforthelonely.blogspot.com/ .

Tuesday, February 19, 2019

Harmonical choir with beautiful, touching sound

Sing according to your idea of how the song is music, fine, magnifient, touches feelings, beautifl. And not according to the notes, keep your idea of the music at the place where notes used to be. And listen to how the voices of others together with your voice reach for your music ideal and theirs, in h natural harmony of ideals.

Learn to play piano, keyboard or accordeon


From my Finnish blog http://musiikkipaivakirja.blogspot.fi

"
Here advices for keys and for reading notes, but play only roughly according to the notes and in practise play reaching for the sound of music, like you feel to be charming, fascinating and impressive, touching feelings, in ways that see life richly. Choose the songs according to what you like and are interested in just then, each time separately and not somehow rigidly, since rigid formal ways do not sound so beautiful and does not fascinate so much and so one does not learn as much so doing. 

I have written this:

Learn to play keyboard


"...get so a nice hobby, if she hasn'r before played any instrument. One thing that comes to my mind is that you would find somewhere an ordinary songbook with songs that interest her, with lyrics and notes too. Reading notes is propably for an adult easier to learn tahn for a child:
The note scripture has five lines with the help of which you see the height of each note. A note can be either on a line or between two lines. The hgher a note is on the scripture, the higher it is played. So on a piano or keyboard a move from a line to the neighbouring space between lines means moving from a white key to it's neighbouring white key. Upwards on the lines means toward higher notes and that is toward right on the piano or keyboard, and downwards is toward lower sounds and that is toward left on the keys.
In the beginning it is propably enough to be able to read right hand notes but for future use it would be good to start reading the notes from middle-C, which is a white key on the left side of two neighbouring black keys and in the notes on the first helping line under the notes, and helping lines are of course counted like the five lines: one shift from line to between the lines means changing from one white key to it's neighbouring white key.
The lenghts of the notes, which means how long they are played, are the following:
in the middle hollw without staff: whole measure
in the middle hollow with a staff: half a measure
in the middle filled which means single colour, with a staff: a quarter of a measure
in the middle filled with a staff with one tail: an eight part of a measure
Neighbouring notes with staffs joined by tilted lines correspond to notes with staffs with as many tails.

  It is enough to play the lkenghts only roughly and by listening to the music's sound decide the right lenght according to what sounds nice, musical.

The black keys are marked with the help of the white keys:
Neighbouring black key at the right side of a white key is marked like a peice of a stick fence in the note describing the white key.
Neighbouring black key on the left side of a white key is marked by b in the note meant for the white key.
Usually these lifted and lowered notes stay the same on each row, so they are usually marked in the beginning, in the left side of the row and apply to all notes on that row on those heights.
That was all. Then just go and find an easy nice song...









Twice a day would be a good rythm for learning. The practise sessions can be of any leghts: what feels nice and does not tire. That one attempts at least something in the same subject area,keep the already learned things better in memory, and so one does not need to repeat so much and can learn at least a little bit new.






13. tammikuuta 2011 klo 15.01


Oh, a dot after a note means that it is played one and a half times longer.







Hi
It came to my mind that at least I recognize notes better via landmarks, but of course via time one learns the pöaces of all notes on the keyboard. For me landmarks are in addition to C, at least H which is the white key at the right side of three blacks, which is at the middle line of the scripture, and F which is white key at the left side of three blacks and in the scripture between two lowest lines.
Typically when one lifts notes, one lifts either only F or then F and C. And typically when one lowers notes, one lowers either only H or then H and E. But of course it is possible to lift or lower more notes.
The letters referring to the notes are: C, D, E, F, G, A, H  and again C, D,
E,... So lifting and lowering apply to all notes with the same name, even if at different heights. Letters correspond to how the keys are structured. (One sequence is called octave, for example C to C.)
In many songs one plays quite glidingly at approximate the same height, but not in all. It propably makes the song easier to play.
.I guess that the first song should be easy and fascinating, whatever that is for each one. From a songbook of 150 songs one is likely to find something... Nice moments with your new ´hobby...
Regards, Hannele






Learn to play 5-row accordeon

It is easy to play accordeon. First learn the right hand and left hand accompainment you can learn later. Accordeon has five rows keys, but on each row of five ascending notes the two last ones are the same as the two first ones of the next row. So it is enough to learn to play the three middle rows and then the two edge rows are only for making easier the choise of keys when playing. Keys are with the samehalf step difference in between as in piano but here blacks and whites are equally on the row, with no difference in shape or place. When you have risen the first three, just move your hand to the next row to rise the next three, easy!From the colours of the keys you can by comparing with piano find the middle-C, and the other keys from comparing to that, they are in the same order as in piano and you can regognize them visually. Then just go on and olay.  Please try! Only via trying you cans ucceed...

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thursday 11.2.2016
I do not know if this is misunderstanding or what or a slip of memory, but when I sent these advices I have made in Finnish to a Swedish speaking older woman who maybe had not played anything before, she in a few days - or in two weeks? - learned on her own to play cahrmingly just about anything, I was told, so that one could not believe that she hadn't had that skill before. If I understood right, she had tld she had recorded too, and maybe that she had been in the radio, but it can beso if she learned well since that would have been a good model for others. But it can be a misunderstanding too.
I had maybe said that one learns well as old too, if one uses one'sexperience of life and is not so formal in how obne studies. For younger ones the advice would be that if one follows one's oiwn insight about music and about the musical sides of life, ad does not play mechanically but more like according to feelings.
But I thought that advice from the point of view of teaching. There is that instead of stubling to note reading skills, one would conceive heights of notes roughly and have some kind of idea of lenghts but in fact one would play according to what sounds music like and search fpr what one oneself longs for from music, what cahrm, longing, impressive, feelings and atmospheres, even beauty, the music of sensations and of the senses. So there would not be notes as a form between oneself and muscíc, but instead notes roughly read and music heard freely with the heart, followed one's own wishes in picking the songs and in ways of playing."

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

How to get rid of modern helplessness

"About modern hhelplessness and practical skills
I just looked at the newspaper how an elderly couple had ordered a house built and it was partly a failure and partly in it had been made choices like one who for the first time does such things and on the other hand were not able to take into account how people would live in such house and what would be the best choise for each thing. So they were an example of modern helplessness in practical things and for example from the ends of the log walls there were the joints lacking with which the logs have traditionally been kept at place, and they had just piled the logs next to each other without proper support and so the house was like a collapsing card house.
So: in which ways one can learn good quality in new areas of life? I guess that modern helplessness is born when one in addition to one's old work alittle bit bladdres through or tries like one's work to get to know the new area of life without having it's spirit, without being tuned to it's ways, habits, ideals and it's professional virtues, without having taken them as one's dreams and as one's practical goals. For one to succeed in such one should dream a lot: what is a good house like, why is it good to live in, what fascinating, what comfortable, what practical all through the year, what kind of houses have such so that they could be used as forefigures, who have buikt them and in which ways, what choices they have made in them and why, in which ways and what are the basic skills needed in that area of life, what are it's basic concretical facts that one must build upon, what are the building parts of such skills, what are the areas of good proper skills, why doe sone need to be able to do each kind of side of the thing, how does one build the things that one dreams about (see my thinking course at http://quickerlearning.blogspot.com ) from teh usually used parts of which people have lots of good experiences, what usual criteria the parts have to fill, for example the different spaces of the house, what are the usual errors and what kind of spirit one needs to have to avoid errors, can I thus plan one with which it is good to live and practical, pleasant, healthy, do I know how to put that into practise and do I have a possibility for it?

So, one needs to learn basic skills well and have the area of life as a hobby for years and start from small things to which one invests with a serious attempt, accepting only successes, and not to trust too much unclear communication with shop assistants and other professionals, since they say yes just in order to be good in a service job, not because things would be so but because they cannot understand why the customer does not read the basic books and brochures of the srea of life, learn those very well first and detailedly, without forgetting to be critical toward unusual options. "


Translated from my blog post http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.com/2016/08/uusavuttomuudesta-eroon-paasemisesta.html

Sunday, November 4, 2018

Writing tip

From my Finnish blog about environmental questions http://kokonaiskuvat.blogspot.com/2018/11/kirjoittamisessa-onnistumisesta.html

"
If one already has skills and insight, then a good text is found from where one has one's own insight, supported by a group of basic skills. One can tell about the meaningfullness of the subject: that subject is fine because... , and connect it with a wider view of the world, and tell based on basic skills the things that are essential for others to learn about the subject, and add a few nice pictures or pieces of stories or interesting observations, like life usually makes fascinating things interesting, but this time pick those that are on a general level, fitted for a wider audience.

Someimes it is difficult to start writing about some subject. Then one can find a right header for the subject, but start it like a tale telling how one came to think about such subject, and so one has described the subject already somehow and can continue to the subject itself.

It is nice to teach the readers skills for life as far as those are not dangerous to others. So it is somewhat like teaching the younger generation in a subject that fascinates oneself."



See also http://musicalfactlanguage.blogspot.com

Thursday, October 18, 2018

Sewing tips (buying fabric, avoiding errors, easy skirts)

Mostly translations from my Finnish text about sewing http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.com/2017/01/ompelemisesta.html

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Please read my easy advice about sewing clothes withoutformulae, with just your dreams guiding you, in this blog: http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/09/sewing-clothes-without-formulae.html
It is propably a large part of what you wish from sewing!

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At which point, how proportions etc: In this it helps a lot to pay attention to one's feelingsa of what is the right choice. So please read the cooking tips in this blog: http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/10/about-cooking.html

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Buying fabrics
Do not think detailedly what to buy but only roughly and grasp fascinating possibilities if they are not too expensive.

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Avoiding errors
Quotation from the knitting advices in this same blog:
" In avoiding errors it is important to notice that some things demand much more time and need their own peaceful space. Planning is such. Likewise estimating right places and right ways of doing. Spotrs talented people invest in moving maybe a thousand tomes more each moment than ones withotu such taloents, and so they do better in sports. If you want to get over some problematic point, keep a pause, breathe freash air, eat something, maybe a fruit or so, rest and do other things for change. Form a picture of your goals starting from your dremas, not according to a ridi´´gid form. Collect practical skills to your support and some kind of emotional touch and an eye for teaching that yu can apply to yourself. Return to those points which succeeded and find good ways of doing and the minimum amount of energy you need. Try again along your dreams with a good quality in practise. Don't copy your old failures and the viewpoints of too clumsy ways. Think starting from the ideals what would be a good way to solve proiblems."

Usually in sewing there comes errors if one does not concentrate in a problematic point in a good way, preferably beforehand already when approaching it. In a difficult point one needs a larger sphere of attention which includes different options of how to do and different possible choices and a good basic way to do and a good state of mind.
  So one's state of mind ought not be stuck, stuck to habits, since such easily causes errors to the difficvult points. Insteda one should have energy to invest more in difficult points: Let's see how we come over this in a good way.
In sewing there is the same kind of thing: not just sewing forward with the machine, but it is instead just one factpr of sewing and adjustments, choices, pauses, trying the cloth on and thinking of noce lines to serw along are also such elements that need to be given time and energy. So sewing does not proceed via an even track, but instead only some points are such sewing which one already can well, and others are thinking of the cloth, developing in sewing skills, solcving difficult points energetically, dreaming of what the cloth would be like to be nice, etc.

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Quotations from my blog http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html

"109. It seems that there is a big difference between whether one is fractureless while doing nothing much or fractureless in the middle of action. In daily life and in healthy ways of living there are many kinds of active things to do, and it is important to get along with such things, feel well with them and be fractureless while doing them. Fracturelessness in the middle of action is somewhat like when you while driving a bicycle stop for a few pushes from pushing with your legs and the bicycle moves by itself, so that you have stuimuli and activity and at the same time you have light easy fracturelessness and sense the atmoshphere of the moment. If you do likewise but whenpushing teh pedals with your legs in a good pleasant mood, the task is easy and just easy enough and the pleasantness, naturality and that it is according to feelings bring fracturelessness into the middle of action. Or if you aren'ät even that much sporty, then like when a sightseeing ship turns, you have stimuli and pleasantness at teh same time. Maybe the diufference to one who is fracturelessness while doing nothing is in how you conceive the moments: do you listent o how your body adapts to changes of temperature when you have just come in fromoutdoors and do you think whether you should eat some snack, or do you lazy without noticing how your body reacts, even if it was just your body which said that now keep a pause since you have to adapt to the temperature change. So one is active and another is passive in the same things to do, and activity creates a route to get along with activity at large inone's life while passivity makes activities cumbersome, full of failures and makes them feel nasty.

110. The point of view of some men is very much according to education, kind of narrow and not so intelligent, not adapting to situations and not understanding the rest of the life in the society. It would be good to vary one's way of doing and one's way to approach things according to common sense and according to the situation: sometimes it is good to be practical, sometimes one needs a good memory, or educated thinking, common sense, motion, feelings or whatever suits the situation. Likewise when working it is good to notice the landscape of life at large with it'sphenomena: with it's social contacts, happenings, journeys, approaching holidays etc. Like that one can train one's common sense and one's understanding about life.
This way a more skilled person can learn to vary the rythm of writing on computer keyboard, so that one feels somehow more comfortable and the sound is nicer, better suited to other things to do and to listening one's own views.

111. In my own life and in that of the people that I know, I have noticed that for the quality of life it is of an enermous importancy that work, hobbies and studies would be things that one values because of themselves and fascinating as things to do, and not done just because of money, habit, custom or being forced to them.

112. Accordingt o my experience women long for women's things more than men do and men on the other hand long for men's things more than women do, but on the other hand both long for the whole spectrum of life, also long for having skills of their own on the whole spectrum of life, at least some kind of skills or even good skills, many kind of content to life. Women long for sports and healthy psirit and basic skills in men's works and not to get pushed around. Men long for music and the possibility at least sometimes bake bakery or the like and fry beef, to be able to choose clothes for oneself, nice looking and socially ok, one that one oneself likes and what kind of values one has and not just according tos ome rigid form, and learn tobe handy etc too. But anyway men enjoy their time in repairing cars more than women do, and women spend time making home nice, to clothes and so on to social things and things that bring good life. So even if you were first a human being and only secodnly of your own sex, you would be just more skilled and more satisfied with your life and not less of your own sex's typical characteristics. My guess is that if pairs would choose freely, boith would do 20% of the other sex's typical work, 10% they would do together and 70% would be according to the traditional roles., but that is just a guess.


113. I do not remember this well enough but as a child I read boys' books "Vinski ja Vinsentti" and "Koko kaupungin Vinski" which were maybe by Jalmari Finne, and they taught fracturelessness, how to be fracturelkess even though there is scholl, human relatiosnhips etc,so that one would anyway live according to one's own wishes, somewhat like some on the coffee pause at work read afternoon paper, but that somehow more widely in one's own life and in what one does, like just is healthy. I wonder ifsome women left those too much un´read, that one should read at least oneor two of them?"


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Making ths sound of sewing machine quieter
The sound of a sewing machine became quiet and nicer when I puty a few times folded fleece fabric under it and somewhat around it too. Earlier the sound was loud and metallic, nasty. Now it is quieter and softer.



Three types of skirts, sew without formulae,according to your wishes
One can easily sew a symmetrical basic skirt without any formulae, if one has the fabric and inspiration for such skirt. One needs to look at the fabric, feel what it is like and how it hangs, to know what kind of skirt would be nice from it and which season of the year it would fit. If one compares to an oldskirt of one's own, one knows better and surer, how wide, how long and what type of skirt would be nice from the fabric.
One needs heigh from the weist to the lower edge of the skirt plus on the top a tunnel for a plastic band and the small part of the lower edge that gets folded. The width needs to be how much width there is needed at the lowest part, so that often means making the skirt from more than one part.
One can cut the pieces of the skirt with curved edge, to which one gets the curve when one knows how much wider the skirt is at the bottom than at the top of it, i.e. in which angle the skirt widens when one goies downwards, since the curve ought to be in every place in a straight 90 degrees angle toward the vertical direction, which of course torns when you go sideways.On the other hand height stays the same all the time. Then just sew the sides together.
Or then one can sew a tunnel from rectangles and make with even spaces in between folds to it to give it its' form. If one wants the skirt widen straight when one goies doiwnwards, the folds are straight i.e. truiangles. Otherwise one makes the form of the skirt to them in what comes to how much the skirt widen at each place when going downwards. One can make all folds of the same size, or every second or ever third bigger one. At the top the width ought to be that of the widest part at the bottom of the torso, since the skirt has to go over that, and at the bottom the width of the bottom of the skirt. The part under the folds hangs straight. One needs atleast six folds.
Or the  if one has a kind of plastic thin fabric that gets easily squeezed, one can sew a tunnel of it and at the top of it between two sewing lines a small tunnel to a plastic band which squeezes trhe upper edge to a narrower evenly and so gives the skirt it's form.
Then sew a small tunnel to the top enge and a plastic band to it at the same time already. And make the bbottom edge nice, i.e. fold a little bit nicely and sew. The excat height of the weiat should be chosen so that the bottom  edge comes to a nice height, i.e. the height is easier to shorten from the weist.
Especially improitant os to look in from of the mirror or by grasping the fabric lightly to one's hand how the fabric hangs, since different fabrics hang in different ways and different figure sin them, colours and materials like different amount of waves. Likewise the season of the year, type of skirt and the social impression you wish for or other style like thing affect a lot to what kind of skirt would be nice. Let the fabric be loosely and change glidingly the amount of it's waves, width etc. And when passing by somepoint that seemed nice, fect it again, and memorize what it is like in style. Then try to make similar amount of waves all the way and estimate the width needed from them and other points like that.
If at some point the style goes poor, keeo a pause, ventilate the room, maybe ear something and start again with a fresh mind with your dreams guiding you.

28th of May 2019   A sewing professional may be bored and not so interested, not so charmed about sewing, while someone who likes sewing as a hobby but does not sew so often may be enthusiastioc, full of new ideas and insight and just like sewing a lot, producing good quality results. For one with a hobby like interest in sewing:
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http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2017/09/learn-talents-and-skills-in-something.html
http://learntalents.blogspot.com/2018/11/how-to-get-rid-of-modern-helplessness.html
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