How to get rid of modern helplessness

"About modern hhelplessness and practical skills
I just looked at the newspaper how an elderly couple had ordered a house built and it was partly a failure and partly in it had been made choices like one who for the first time does such things and on the other hand were not able to take into account how people would live in such house and what would be the best choise for each thing. So they were an example of modern helplessness in practical things and for example from the ends of the log walls there were the joints lacking with which the logs have traditionally been kept at place, and they had just piled the logs next to each other without proper support and so the house was like a collapsing card house.
So: in which ways one can learn good quality in new areas of life? I guess that modern helplessness is born when one in addition to one's old work alittle bit bladdres through or tries like one's work to get to know the new area of life without having it's spirit, without being tuned to it's ways, habits, ideals and it's professional virtues, without having taken them as one's dreams and as one's practical goals. For one to succeed in such one should dream a lot: what is a good house like, why is it good to live in, what fascinating, what comfortable, what practical all through the year, what kind of houses have such so that they could be used as forefigures, who have buikt them and in which ways, what choices they have made in them and why, in which ways and what are the basic skills needed in that area of life, what are it's basic concretical facts that one must build upon, what are the building parts of such skills, what are the areas of good proper skills, why doe sone need to be able to do each kind of side of the thing, how does one build the things that one dreams about (see my thinking course at http://quickerlearning.blogspot.com ) from teh usually used parts of which people have lots of good experiences, what usual criteria the parts have to fill, for example the different spaces of the house, what are the usual errors and what kind of spirit one needs to have to avoid errors, can I thus plan one with which it is good to live and practical, pleasant, healthy, do I know how to put that into practise and do I have a possibility for it?

So, one needs to learn basic skills well and have the area of life as a hobby for years and start from small things to which one invests with a serious attempt, accepting only successes, and not to trust too much unclear communication with shop assistants and other professionals, since they say yes just in order to be good in a service job, not because things would be so but because they cannot understand why the customer does not read the basic books and brochures of the srea of life, learn those very well first and detailedly, without forgetting to be critical toward unusual options. "


Translated from my blog post http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.com/2016/08/uusavuttomuudesta-eroon-paasemisesta.html