Good social relationships and healthy kind of active life

 I have been wondering why I am so sleepy and unactive. I have noticed that if there is anything really negative in my life, someone has marked it healthily normal and the only occasion to wake up and get some home chores done, kind of as if a possible start for my own active life, except that it is so negative that I would prefer dying. Yet the problem seems to be that foreigners consider Finnish ways somehow too positive and naive to exist as anything else than a theater scene hiding murders, torture, evil, etc. So I do not quite know how it is possible for the rest of the world to exist and be alive if this Finnish level looks much too good to be allowed to flourish by it's own virtues. Like, school was for most or many just memorised knowledge, without following civiliced values in social life etc, except between like-minded maybe. So is even that too much for foreigners? One cannot build the world upon that. Much less if the rest of the world is worse in what good is allowed. 

But anyway, the kind of social life school taught was much better. It was civiliced values followed with common sense and good quality and wisdom of life with healthy ways of living, this in all social matters, in all kinds of matters with all, allowing each individual make oneself one's own life's choices of hobbies, jobs, ways of doing, friends, dates, etc, but leaving room for others too. Follow the rule "Live and let others live" all the time in everything, see https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/12/a-christmas-song-i-am-not-seeking-for.html . And wish well for the world, good life for all fairly, now and in the future, and if there is time travel, wishing well for the past generations too, and for all living beings. 

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